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Being a parent is as challenging as a climbing the mountain peak. New to everything, still has to handle it. New parents’ happiness is on Cloud nine, at every moment when it comes to their child’s accomplishments. Real challenges start when joy accompanies the responsibility of making the child to grow into a responsible, calm & meticulous child. And, trust me on this that, it’s actually strenuous.
One of the most common imperative parenting challenge many parents might have faced is the scarcity of time, Failure in imparting Moral Values, Imbalanced life, Lack of Emotional bonding ,Wrangling the existential thoughts about life as they would also apply to the kid, Realizing that your progeny could turn to be a selfish human being & so on.
We at Golden Bells Early Years, India’s first Multiple Intelligences based Pre School in Pitampura are mindful to the issues the parents our preschoolers face and are fervid to unriddle the situations. Let your eyes walk through the Do’s & Don’ts to avoid the Mistakes, to get good Parenting Takes.
“We share with you; as we CARE for you”
Do’s for the Parents of a Preschooler
Correct PRONUNCIATION: Correct Pronunciation is really important for everyone. Using correct sounds while speaking helps others to understand what you wish to say.
Understanding the Reasons: Try to figure out what your kid is saying or doing or why he/she is behaving in a particular way. Observe to find the reasons behind it. Understanding the reasons will ultimately help you to know the child’s nature.
Reward with Verbal Appreciation: Acknowledge their minute efforts even & give them rewards. Obviously not materialistic ones, Verbal Appreciation or applause will definitely do the good.
Reflect Disagreement: Reflect disagreement to their wrong actions, so that they realize what has been done wrong. Self- Realization among preschoolers will help them to differentiate between good or bad; & will keep them away from making bad decisions, bringing you a Good Decision Maker.
Caring & Empathetic Individual: A child should be caring towards oneself, his belongings and others’ emotions to be evolved into a responsible & empathetic person.
Don’ts for the Parents of a Preschooler
Saying the words as wrong as the kid does: If you wish to develop the linguistic skills of your child then Mimicry is a Big No. In early stage child could pronounce some words wrongly or differently. Make sure you reflect the communication with correct words. E.g.: calling a ‘Dog’ as ‘doggie’, calling ‘Water’ as ‘Mumm’ or so.
Entertaining the Tantrums: Listen to your child’s wishes, accept the valid ones. But never entertain the tantrums thrown by the kid. Otherwise, a stubborn kid, who isn’t habitual of listening to NO will be standing in front of you.
Rewards in Return: Each of the child’s actions don’t ask for the gifts. Appreciation does justice to it as well. Rewarding leads to inculcate the habit of asking for favors in return always.
Smiling/Laughing at their wrong deeds: A child who is at Preschooling age is too young to conclude if his action is wrong. Smiling/Laughing at their wrong deeds shows acceptance. This will never let them feel that their action is wrong.
Making them Self-Centered: Indeed the little ones are special; they are important. They are the center of your world. It doesn’t mean that we should let them become self-centered. Help them to be aware of the fact that everything & everyone matters. The world can’t solely revolve around them only.
Merely by keeping note of the above mentioned points, the Parenting Challenges could be skipped. Let’s pledge together to raise children in a way that they make the world little less cruel and heartless. As:
“It’s easier to up bring an Ideal Child than to Correct a Spoilt One”.
Golden Bells Early Years, ranked among the best play school in Pitampura strives to provide the quality education to the young minds ensuring the Happy Preschooling for them.
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